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"Your guide for newbies covers vastly all the points that worry me the most ... I read it eagerly the minute I received it, and several times more after. ... I wonder how people used to prepare for their first gradings in the olden days, before you guys wrote this guide ... In general, I like the understanding and friendly style of yours, and the tricks to gain a few secs in case you feel too tired! ..." Patricia, London
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There is not question about self enhancement. You help others because it make you feel better (aka: superior) and that is also a big step above feel better by others suffering.
The question is if you can "not to be there" protect your self at the same time you do not involve your passion or emosion. you do not place yourself as uke or tori, simply move, no agresion, no protection, no evaluation of the threat as a threat but also no evaluation at all. once you (or me) will be able to do that also with a real-life attack, that is for me the superior level of the martial art